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ŠAMAR REALNOSTI: Skinula se u kupaći i otkrila TRIKOVE kojima se ljudi služe kako bi PREKRILI svoje nedostatke

Odlučila je da pokaže kako se na Instagramu može manipulisati fotografija i da nije sve onako kako izgleda.

06.07.2020. - 15:00h
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Girl, stop trying to make everyone happy - you’re not guacamole. A popular body positive influencer was shamed recently for wanting to lose weight. Another has been shamed for gaining it. And both openly, authentically stood by their decisions. It got me thinking: what would WE DO different if we were less afraid of BEING different. Not just with our health, our wellness goals, but with our hopes, our dreams, our LIVES? It’s easy to want to MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY. To fit in. To softly and gently bend and fold with whatever voices shout the loudest or sting the sharpest. Whether that’s a parent or a loved one or a stranger on a screen. Only in trying to PLEASE EVERYONE, we become no one. We fade. We lose ourselves. Trust me, I’ve been there. So here’s the lesson I’ve learned the hard way, and am still constantly, endlessly relearning: We will NEVER make everyone happy. We won’t. It’s impossible. Humans are complex. Our opinions are vast and varied and strong. And that’s ok. That’s WONDERFUL. What matters is that we each EXPLORE what sits INSIDE US. That we remain open to growth. To development. To being called in and learning. And that we honour, we ALWAYS honour, the truth which curls quietly inside of us. Whether it’s about how the goals we set FOR OUR BODIES or the plans we have FOR OUR LIVES. Even if it makes us different. Even when it shows how we all truly ARE different. I know it’s scary, but we can do this. You can do this. Be yourself, babygirl. No guacamole required. Influencers mentioned: @learningtobefearless @stephanie_buttermore #selflove #feminist #inspoquote #selfacceptance #normalizenormalbodies

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Novinarka iz Dubaija Denei Merser je ovoga puta na svom Instagram nalogu objavila fotografije bez ikakvog fotošopiranja. Ona je sklona da redovno objavljuje fotografije „pre i posle“ u želji da ukaže koliko se lako, menjajući poze i osvetljenje, može izmeniti fizički izgled na fotografiji.

Na postu koji je osvojio skoro 438 hiljada lajkova, novinarka je pozirala ispred ogledala kako bi pokazala veliku razliku.

“Insta protiv stvarnosti - glavna razlika na ovim fotografijama je osvetljenje. Na prvoj slici, moja zadnjica je namerno u senci. Manja svetlost skriva moj celulit i zaglađuje većinu mojih strija. Na drugoj ležerno čučim pored ogledala. Bokovi i bedra su mi na suncu. Postoji nekoliko razlika u poziranju (čvrst stav, izbačeni kukovi i sl), ali ova slika govori o osvetljenju koje radi svoju magiju”, napisala je zvezda društvenih mreža.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

CELLULITE is so darn COMMON. So WEAR that swimsuit. Rock that bikini. Get out there and roll with the full wonder of all that you are. And don’t let any little lumpbumps make you second guess for a single minute. Over 80 percent of women have cellulite. That’s a HUGE number - and yet we are told it’s bad and wrong and subtly, so subtly, taught that it is shameful. Some of us learn these lessons as little girls. Yesterday I shared a YouTube video that wants to teach exactly that. It featured a slight child deciding she was TOO BIG, so she exercised and weighed herself and ate carrots and weighed herself and climbed stairs and weighed herself. Some of us learn these lessons as adults, when brands try to SELL TO US and make money from SHAME. From creating flaws that don’t exist, or from turning incredibly common bits of bodies into things that must be fixed. Wherever you learned these lessons, know that they are wrong. Your cellulite is NOT an error. A glitch in perfection. It’s incredible. Unique. A stamp mark of who you are. A sign that your body is functioning and alive and doing the same thing as over 80% of other women. So today, babygirl, get out there and rock your cellulite. Celebrate your dips and rolls. Embrace your curves or your straights. And most of all, do whatever makes you SMILE. Because you are a GLORIOUS CELEBRATION. A song of limbs and heart and soul. Don’t you forget it. Bikini @heiress_swimwear #selflove #bodyacceptance #normalizenormalbodies #cellulite #strengthmarks

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Njena objava je izazvala ogroman broj pozitivnih komentara, a većina ljudi je pohvalila novinarku zbog spremnosti da pokaže svoje nesavršenosti.

“Svaka čast. Prihvatanje svog tela je najvažnije. Samo tako možete zavoleti sebe”, napisao je jedan od pratilaca.

“Definitivno i ja pravim fotografije u najboljim pozama, skrivajući svoje nedostatke”, priznao je jedan pratilac u komentaru.

Dane je takođe priznala da društvene mreže utiču na njeno samopouzdanje, te je zaključila da nikada ne treba da se upoređujete sa drugima, piše telegraf.rs.

“Instagram je počeo negativno da utiče na način na koji posmatram sebe iz nekoliko različitih razloga (moja visina, moja težina, potreba da se takmičim)... Ne bi trebalo da se upoređujete sa osoba koje ne poznajete i koje viđate na Internetu” poručila je influenserka.